I take one week every summer and go on silent retreat, spending time in
prayer, taking with me the prayer request cards of the congregation,
books that will help me think, and my Bible. Prior to that week I send
an e-mail to the congregation inviting them to pray, and then to submit
ideas for sermons they need, or they think their friends need. I ask
them what theological questions they have that they would like to hear
a sermon on. I ask them what dimensions of the Christian life they
need help with. I ask them what parts of the Bible they feel I have
neglected or they simply would like to hear more about. I ask what
personal issues they are wrestling with, or what societal issues they
would like to have me consider in the light of the scriptures. There
are usually 40 years worth of sermon ideas they submit and I read over
them all. I also meet with our staff and key leaders prior to the
retreat and ask for their input. So the process is very collaborative.
I read all of this input. I pray. I read scripture. I pray. I
walk. I pray. I read other books. I pray. And eventually the ideas
seem to flow. I lay out sermon series ideas - usually four years worth
of ideas. I keep chewing on them, praying over them, and begin to add
sermon titles and a few more ideas. When I'm finished with this week,
I meet with our worship planning team, share the ideas, and they help
me discern which are most needful for our congregation and/or which
most resonate with them. Out of this comes a two year sermon plan. I
revise and change this plan throughout the year.
This is a good question.
came out of my desire not so much to
raise money as to help people in an area of life most Americans
struggle with. My "stewardship" series the last couple of years were
more about doing pastoral care and discipleship than raising money.
But the result was that people gave more generously and faithfully.
Yes, I think we are where we are because we've become confused about
where life is found. When you get to the bottom of the current
economic crisis, both on Wall Street and Main Street, what you find are
at least four of the seven deadly sins: gluttony, greed, envy and
pride. We continued to believe that joy is found in having more
stuff. Our economy was fueled by making it possible for American
consumers to buy an ever increasing amount of "stuff" by borrowing
tomorrow's income today. This is why a government bailout, while it
may be important, will not ultimately solve the problem. We'll be
right back where we are in a few years if we don't fundamentally
re-think our relationship with money and possessions.
ADAM: Yes, I've had people explain to me why they could not tithe at
their income level. I listen patiently, and, when appropriate, explain
how LaVon and I began tithing the year we were married - we were 18
years old making a combined income of $11,000 - $1,000 below the
poverty level for a family of two that year. I was going to college
full time and we had no support from our families. And we gave 10% to
God and also sponsored a child through Compassion. I
tell folks that I don't give because I think God will make me rich as a
result. But I also share that our experience has been that we were
never hungry, and somehow we had more left over each month than our
friends who did not tithe. I could not completely explain this. I
feel God has blessed us and entrusted us with greater responsibility
because we sought to be faithful with the little that we had.
SHANE: Why do you consider it "countercultural" for Christians to not only live within our means, but below our means?ADAM: Yes, our culture has for years invited people to live beyond their
means - to buy the biggest house they could afford. To drive nicer and
more expensive cars than they should have driven. And to live by
credit to fund a lifestyle they could not really afford. There was no
room for giving to God, to non-profits or to help family. But I think
the gospel calls us to live simpler lives. Simplicity is a relative
term. It looks different depending upon your income level. What I
invite people to do is to live several rungs below their income level.
LaVon and I try to practice this in our life. Our aim is to give away
an increasing percentage of our income every year. Last year that was
22.5% of our after tax income. I hope by the time we retire it is
significantly more than this. And, most of what we accumulate in our
lives, we'll give away at our death to kingdom causes.
SHANE: How do John Wesley's example and teachings affect your views of money and stewardship?ADAM: I think Wesley sets a great example, though not necessarily realistic
for most of us. However, his dictum, earn all you can, save all you
can, give all you can is one anyone can live by.
SHANE: A key theme of your book is contentment. How do we learn how to be
content? How do we find a middle ground between the extremes of lazy
complacency and an excessive interest in money?ADAM: Gratitude is a key part of finding contentment. Gratitude helps
trigger a change in our perspective. Our values have to change too -
we begin to value time with people, we value doing meaningful things,
we recognize that joy is usually found in simpler, rather than more
elaborate things. Again, I think Wesley's dictum addresses your second
question.
SHANE: Most people would consider you a moderate evangelical. There's an old
saying that the problem with being in the middle of the road is you get
hit by cars going both ways! Have you ever felt like that? In our
denomination (and your congregation in particular) do you feel that you're a
bridge-builder between the left and the right? If so, how? How do you
think Church of the Resurrection with its diversity of viewpoints serves as a prototype for
21st century United Methodism?
ADAM: Wesley himself was a bridge builder - straddling the line between
Catholic and Protestant, between high church and low church,
conformists and non-conformists. In my book
Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White
I identify with the "radical center." I recently heard former British
Prime Minister Tony Blair pick up this same theme. Yes, I have in the
past felt that I was a bit of a misfit - not conservative enough for
the conservatives and not liberal enough for the liberals.
Increasingly, however, I find growing cadre of people who are drawn to
this approach to the gospel - a holistic approach that holds in tension
the best of the left and the right. I also think this is precisely the
kind of approach to the Christian faith that 21st century young people
are most likely to respond to. In addition, the country as a whole is
currently moving in this same direction. Since
this is a part of Methodist DNA, I feel like we've got a huge
opportunity right now to be the church that reaches non-religious and
nominally religious people.
SHANE: You recently preached a sermon on a controversial topic: homosexuality.
Your position on this subject seems to have moved left over the years,
but you show an unusual amount of respect for people on both sides of
the issue and you even appear to be attempting to forge a "third way."
What would be your advice to congregations that take far left or far
right positions on this? Is it possible to take a traditional position
on homosexuality and still be a congregation that effectively reaches
gays and lesbians?ADAM: I think it will be increasingly difficult to be a vocal proponent
of the current UM position on homosexuality and effectively reach the
next generation, or to effectively reach gays and lesbians. I think
one might hold the current UM stance and not address the issue and
reach them. One might, for the next five years (ten years in the
south) articulate our current position with great compassion, and still
reach young adults, homosexuals and their friends, family and
co-workers. But the world is changing and I think the church will see
this issue differently in the future. I'm convinced that all of the
evangelical churches will wrestle with this issue in ten to fifteen
years or they will have lost a generation and will themselves begin a
steady period of decline. Sunday I asked our congregation to raise
their hands if they have a close friend or someone they love who is
gay. 90% of the congregation raised their hands. These folks already
see greater complexity in this issue than the church does. They may
still be a bit more conservative, but they will not tolerate churches
that speak in ways that are cruel and insensitive about their friends.
It's one thing to debate homosexuality as a hypothetical argument
about someone you hardly know. It is another thing to consider a
position regarding the life of someone you love.
My
own journey and position on this involves several things: First, I
continue to acknowledge that the scripture teaches that heterosexuality
is normative and, to use Leslie Weatherhead's language from his book, The Will of God,
God's "intentional will." The second is to recognize that there is a
small portion of the population that seems to be shaped differently
from that intention, either at birth or by early childhood, and usually
not by a choice that was their own. For these heterosexuality will be
very difficult to live into, even with the kind of "reparative therapy"
offered by some. Next, after thirty years of daily Bible reading I
have come to recognize that the Bible is a more complex document than
most people would like to admit. It is both a book written by human
beings who were shaped by their cultural and theological
presuppositions, and the limitations of their knowledge, and it is a
book through which God has spoken and continues to speak. This
recognition gives us the ability to wrestle with the texts on
homosexuality and to at least ask questions of them (did God really
intend that homosexuals be stoned to death? Does God really see the
gay children who we baptized, gave third grade Bibles to, confirmed and
raised up as an "abomination"?) Fourth, we have a clear mandate,
throughout scripture, concerning demonstrating love. We are to "do
justice and to love mercy." Finally, what has most affected me and my
views of this issue over the years has been my love of the children in
our congregation. Having been in this church nearly 19 years, more
than a dozen of the children I've baptized and watched grow up in the
church later "came out" - I love these children (now young adults) and
as I listen to their stories, and the way they've been treated by other
Christians, I find myself being very protective of them. Likewise, in
a congregation of 16,000 people, if we're reaching a representative
sample of the community, 5% of these - roughly 800 people - are gay or
lesbian. And I feel a great compassion and care for those in my flock
that I know who are gay. So, both in my theological reflection about
the nature of God, the nature of scripture and the nature of love, and
in my personal experience with children and youth I care about in my
flock, I find my views moderating on this issue.
I've
tried to navigate a third way that says that we at Church of the
Resurrection will agree to disagree about this issue - we've got folks
on both sides. But we will continue to try to learn, grow and
understand more clearly both the issue of homosexuality and how God
looks at his children who are gay. And we will be a place where no
one's children are turned away, or wounded by our church. I have tried
to model how we might affirm the normative status of heterosexuality
while seeing homosexuality with fresh and more sensitive and
understanding eyes than we have in the past.
I
still have a lot of unresolved questions about homosexuality, but what
I've said captures the struggle, and the journey, I've been on.
SHANE: Now for a little fun. Suppose TBN calls and offers you your own
television show. What do you tell them? If you had your own daily TV
show, what would it look like?ADAM: No to TBN! I have watched some of their programming and I would not be
a good fit! They'd kick me off within a few weeks, I think. But if I
had time, I would love to do a daily show to talk about Christian
ethics, theology and practical Christian living on PBS. I would do a
Q&A format - I love doing Q&A sessions at the church. And I
would include short stories from daily life- I saw a news story last
year about a concert violinist who started playing in the subway in
some major city. They had a hidden camera on the guy to see if anyone
stopped, but virtually no one did- they just kept hurriedly going
about their business. And I thought, there's a short sermon there-
how we miss out on the amazing beauty around us because we're in such a
hurry. That's the kind of short stories I'd do! But there's no time.
I'll leave that for someone else. The closest thing I've seen to what
I would do is
Religion & Ethics Newsweekly.
SHANE: You talk about Macs and iPhones a lot. What are you, an Apple snob?ADAM: Ha! I suppose I am. I fell in love with the Mac in 1985, my first
year of seminary. I saved up enough to buy a used Mac in early 1986
and I still have that original Mac sitting on my desk as a decoration
(and it still runs!).
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EDITOR'S NOTE: Be sure to check out Adam's
blog. Also, the sermon I mentioned near the end of the interview can be found
here.